::o.o grr.. people have goals.. motivations. And they act accordingly. Whatever they do, they have a motivation behind their actions. It is when they focus entirely on their own motivation and ignore that of others around them, that they become selfish and endanger relationships.
Sometimes they may not even realize what they are doing, until the moment has passed and the damage is done. Insensitivity.. no one likes it.. yet some people cant help but do it.
forgive.. and forget.. that'll only work.. if all involved forgets.
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love is like a book. having relationship is like reading a book. It has its twists and turns, its climax and an ending. Bring the ending forward too soon, and it is ruined. Ditto the climax. No one benefits. The book is now without a purpose, it cannot bring you any more joy and you would not want to read it no more...
Trying to read it again is a waste of time. Time better spent looking for another book..
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Today when I was coming home on the bus from work I saw this uncle. He was chasing this bus that was in front of my bus. He chased this bus for at least 100m. He was sprinting on roads and jumping over humps in a precarious way. He nearly collided with this other bus as he focused on chasing the bus preceding it. And he duly fell. Tripped; and as I watched him use his arms to break his fall, my heart was in my mouth. His hair was white, probably 70+ years of age, and still in such good health. What a tragedy it would be if he had gotten hurt in his chase? A helathy old man in his golden years paralysed while chasing a bus. o.O In any case, he got his bus. He didn seem badly hurt as he got back on his feet rather quickly. Quick enough to swear at the other bus driver before boarding his desired bus.
Best wishes to all old healthy folks. =]
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.:firestarter blogged on 8:54 PM:.
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